Couples Psychotherapy

Your relationship is off the rails.

It used to be fun. You remember when it used to be fun staying up all night and talking about your hopes and dreams. You may remember how you used to struggle to hang up the phone, ending each call with the classically cute banter of, “No, you hang up, No you. OK, we will do it at the same time.”

And now when your partner calls, you answer with a disgruntled, “Ugh, what?”

It is so much easier to do nothing.

It is even comfortable. You might find yourself saying, “I will do this if…” The change needs to start somewhere.

If you do not put a stop to the snowball right now, the feelings of resentment will just grow. Once, you did love this person. Otherwise, you would not have married or formed a union.

Once, you wanted to be the one to make the other happy. You were more open or forgiving, and you loved and felt loved.

How did you get to this point? When did this relationship stop being fun?

Can the flame be rekindled?

After many years of marriage, stressful life situations, kids, hardships, etc., we do not always remember how to be our best selves and how to love our partners as we once did.

We need to get you thinking about your communication style. We can work to find a voice that will help you really say what you mean so that you are more likely to get what you want and need.

It is time for the two of you to start loving again. You are going to find a way back to that couple you used to be and perhaps even become the envy of all your friends – as they see just how stinkin’ cute you are.

Couples therapy is a way to get back to the relationship you used to have, the time when it was fun and exciting, and you guys liked each other.

Help is a call away.

I am not going to tell you what to do, but I do hope to be able to help you find your way back to the loving relationship you once had.

Why not give it a try?

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Imagine the future filled with compassion, commitment, and companionship again.

Call now to stop the cycle.